Help on How to Give a Handjob

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In the middle of a recent chat with a friend, she suddenly tangented:

This may seem really weird and left of field, but I tried to give a handjob for the first time in over three years… and I had NO clue how to do it! I was hopeless.

Which led to a fun conversation about, well, handjobs and how to give them. Or at least tips to ensure a greater chance of pleasurable success.

Tips How To Give A Handjob 

Get them to help:

Most guys know exactly what pressure, angle and fist will work for them, and you might just not be fast or strong enough to stroke them to orgasm – I’m certainly not! I find a good way to make up for that is to get them to put their hand over mine, and guide it. That way they’re getting good pressure, they’re controlling the movement and speed, and I’m picking up what motions they like at the same time.

 

Get them to show:

I’m also a big fan of upfrontness – saying ‘I’m out of practice with this; show me how you like it’ is always good – plus it’s hot to watch them do it! Practicing mutual masturbation can be intensely hot – watching them get themselves off can help get yourself off – and you both have the opportunity to observe what moves work for your partner.

 

Add some lubes!

Lube is always fun for handjobs, but not all guys like it. It can be nice to experiment though! Often guys will use saliva on their hands to keep things slick, and the same can be achieved by giving some oral pleasure. A nice lubricant can be fun – warm it in your palms and slick it over the head, the shaft, and pay attention to the frenulum as well.

 

Have fun:

Knowing how to give a handjob is easy. It doesn’t have to lead to orgasm, but should be fun for whatever reason – touching and caressing and giving pleasure is worth it just for sake of it. Take it gently (unless they tell you they want it harder); admire the uniqueness of the cock in your hand; treat it with respect and desire and arousal. And enjoy the results!

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